Think of a time when you really, really wanted something but you didn’t get it. 

When you twisted yourself into a pretzel trying to make it happen and it still wasn’t enough. 

Because you thought you had to fix or change something about yourself first before you felt worthy of having what you want.

OR, harder yet, you tried to fix or change something outside yourself - the people or the circumstances that you perceived had the power to give it to you. Only it didn't work. 

Or maybe you did get the thing you told yourself you wanted, but realized it wasn’t what you’d hoped for after all. 

You felt let down, disappointed.

But you hung in there, hoping things would change and you’d feel differently. 

Except they didn’t. 

**Ugh!**

And now you judge and doubt yourself even more.

Maybe you've decided that it's easier (and safer!) to not want what you want.

That your time and energy are better spent on the things you can control, that validate you, and don't stress or push you too far outside of your comfort zone!

Now imagine that you keep repeating versions of this cycle over and over again with similar results.

Would you eventually give up and decide that maybe you couldn’t have what you really, really wanted, even though deep down you still longed for it?

For many people that’s what dating feels like. 

Your pursuit of one of life’s greatest gifts – a deeply loving and fulfilling relationship –  ends up reinforcing your fear that it’s not attainable. 

That its a pipe dream fantasy concocted by movie makers and romance novelists, unlike your own experience, which feels more like being a contestant on a reality TV show...

Lots of drama and you didn’t get the rose. 

Would you like to get off that crazy train?

IN FACT….

What if it didn’t matter that you haven’t been “lucky in love” to find true love?

What if its OK that you haven’t gotten all your S%*T figured out before you started dating?

What if all those insecurities of yours are actually covering up what is best and most precious about you?

Wouldn’t it be worth it to approach dating not as a way to find somebody who will love you, but to discover that you are lovable and amazing as you are, and worthy of a partner who feels the same way about you too? 

Would you like to know that its not only possible, but inevitable to find someone like that but you just have to change the way you approach dating?

And that starts with discovering and appreciating and leading with your unique core gifts, because those will attract the kind of partner that's just right for you!

Loving yourself first is not as cliché as it sounds, its actually the KEY to finding true and lasting love!

When you honor the truth of who you are, know that you are lovable, worthy and enough, right here, right now, you will attract the people who love you “as is", as well as what you choose to grow into. 

This is what we want for YOU!!

This is what is possible when you commit to a new way of finding meaningful and lasting relationships, with those who inspire you to be your best self, instead of relationships where you feel diminished, or contained and not able to show up fully as yourself. 

If you’re ready to experience this kind of relationship, we want to support you in finding it!

Join us for a deep dive into what's holding you back from finding the true love and fulfillment you’re longing for!


When you sign up you’ll get:

Four 90 minute LIVE teaching + coaching calls 

These calls will be highly experiential and engage you in dramatically transforming your approach to dating. Taught by Suzanne Hanna, MA and Karolyn McKinley, LMFT.  They combine their 25+ years of psychotherapeutic and educational training to help you get the results you desire.

We will help you:

*Discover your core gifts that lead to finding the right partner and lasting love

* Identify and heal the beliefs and behavior that lead to unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships, again and again. 

* The essential dating skills you need to successfully apply everything you learn in this program while dating. 

* How to cultivate lasting love and fulfillment with a partner who can create a "relationship of  inspiration" with you. 

Call times: Every other Wednesday at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST starting January 30th, on ZOOM video conferencing.   (Replay recordings will also be available if you can't make it live).

Call Dates:  1/30, 2/13, 2/27, final call on 3/20/2019

Weekly homeplay & journaling exercises from the book “Deeper Dating” to accelerate and integrate your learning.  You will experience how this approach to dating is radically different than what you've been taught, and we will use this framework throughout the course. 

A safe and supportive group to share your experiences with and cheer you on!  As well as a learning partner to help you deepen your understanding and discover your core gifts. Having ongoing support is crucial to getting the results you want from this deep, transformational work.  Invite a friend to go through the course with you and be your learning partner.

Access to a private Facebook group to share your journey, ask questions and get support as you apply what you’re learning in the course. We'll also be doing pop-up Facebook live calls to answer your questions in-between meeting times. 

Imagine getting all of this for the cost of one session with your therapist to talk about your latest relationship heartache or disaster!   Pretty awesome eh?

If you are ready to find the love you’ve always wanted, JOIN US by registering now!  

This is a small group experience. Space is limited to ensure personalized attention and support!