What's Your Kryptonite?

This deep-rooted dysfunctional pattern can be found in something as simple as you burning the toast, all the way up to how come your marriage failed, why you didn't get the job you really, really wanted, or why your body keeps breaking down.

The same pattern shows up in all of them, even if those things seem completely different.

This dysfunctional pattern was coded up early in your life and while it helped you survive then, it most certainly doesn't serve you now.

So if you have a hard time creating or sustaining what you'd truly love to experience in your life, sure as shootin' this is what's probably sticking you.

My particular dysfunctional pattern was not asking for help or support, and trying to do everything all by myself. (See picture of me wearing ALLLLL the hats as a kid! )

There's lots of reasons I decided early on in life this was the best solution for getting my needs met, but I can assure you, it was not.

Oh MERCY! So VERY not!

Especially when it came to running my business.

Even though I've been able to do a lot of what's required myself, its held me back in so many significant ways.

Money saved, yeah, but OH SO much time lost!

Can't get that back, EVER.

DIY'ing everything is my kryptonite.

It's what kills my magic.

And so I'm VERY pleased to report that I said ENOUGH to this toxic pattern of mine, and just like that the perfect support person showed up!

Today I hired my very first Virtual Assistant, Archie, thanks to my dear friend Suzanne, whom he also helps.

You know that feeling you get when you rush home to cook dinner after a long ass day, bags of groceries in your hands, and someone else has cleaned the house, set the table, and hands you a glass of wine while they cook you a delicious meal?

Yep! That's how I feel right now.

So relieved....and so. dang. grateful!